Xinhua Shanghai August 23

Xinhua Shanghai August 23 (Reporter Chen Aiping Zhou Rui) from "being blind" to "being married" and even "is divorce" into the marriage age of 80, suddenly found that due to the strong involvement of the parents, then he became a Marriage of "supporting role." Marriage after 80 who call the shots in the end?

"Negative blind" "passive marriage" Marriage after 80 who call the shots,piumini moncler?

In a foreign bank in Shanghai white-collar Wang Lin sigh, from year to now imply straightforward, parents "love to make" This year has been upgraded to even the typhoon "anemone" landing must have rain or shine, according to "phase" the point is not wrong, "Tanabata" day is overflowing.

"8 big storm, units are on holiday, my father also insisted on using the 'serial killer call' blind me to go home. I rented a house from Pudong, Songjiang arrived home,http://sekainoowari.1st.gr.jp, then back to Pudong,woolrich donna, the road must 4 hours, how could wade go blind? "parental enthusiasm and did not return to their satisfaction results, but let Wang Lin love interest down to" freezing "the passage of time as well as the resentment," I appeared the obligation to try to, anyway, can not rely on me with unsuccessful. "

And Wang Lin, like,spaccio woolrich, run around in the blind field for many young people, the love marriage is far from real life they consider the main event, but the side of the parents has long been ready to make a vigorous desire marriage drama director. "Been blind" is often the parents accountable in order to complete the task,piumino moncler, but in order to "be blind to fail", they want a variety of trick, trying to let the other opening refuse themselves. On the micro-blog and forum, "blind date failed Dafa" is touted by users. "With IT men through chat, chat with male liberal arts Lagrangian function, met mature dress 'brain-dead',http://mizu-masa.sakura.ne.jp/yokkaichi/movie/sunbbs2/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=2026&page=0, met lively and funny dress 'facial paralysis'."

"Been blind" and perhaps also with the "blind date failed Dafa" to resist for a while, "being married," the couple was often "run away."

Love less than three months earlier this year,http://mari.spzgh.org/blog.cgi, Xiao Wang and Li both parents in the "carrot and stick" policy flash marriage, the wedding did not take long, because two people quarrel angrily to the Civil Affairs Office quietly divorced. But because both parents both live in co-financing the purchase of the marriage room, afraid to tell the truth about their parents divorce, they had to "divorce is not home" and continue to live together in marriage room.

Data show that in Shanghai grassroots divorce case before the Court, about a quarter of the party for 80, while in some lower courts,http://bbs.cs1com.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=61525, 80 to 10 percent of divorce cases annually. Compared to other age groups in divorce cases, and 80 prominent features that parents divorce trial as an agent, high third party involvement.

Yet "Slim" has to be "regulating the family",doudoune moncler homme, "male and female" Why is a "supporting role"?

Experts believe that some of the 80 reduced to a supporting role from the Marriage of the protagonist, which, themselves, family and social factors both.

"Just work for three years, the deposit will add up to the two of us more than ten million people, can not buy even a kitchen,louboutin femme, how could settle down to get married?" Constantly rising prices and price broke married, how many young people dream of, But the question remains personal attitude of today's youth is the primary factor in the delay of the word marriage. Born in 1986, Xia Chao believes, can not afford a house more often he had not intended to have an excuse to get married, "Actually, I always thought she was still a child, my girlfriend is very childish, how can two kids get married ,scarpe hogan outlet shop, go to raise a child? "

On the one hand,moncler donna, with a corresponding rise in the cost of marriage, the parents in order to facilitate the marriage package offered to buy the packaging wedding room, arranged wedding package with a baby on a generation of strong intervention so that the already lack experience in dealing with family issues after 80 happy. " nothing "; on the other hand, parents send their children rely on their own as a habit, often so that would be the couple's" little contradictory,http://www.8211.jp/faq/mail.cgi,moncler outlet online, "and finally evolved into two families," Great War. "

Positive attitude clear goals my marriage, I call the shots

Although the young man willing to marry their own "green", but there are a lot of young couple firmly grasp the marriage initiative,piumini moncler,http://my.5754.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, sacrifice material conditions in exchange for personal growth, in their view, could have happy marriage depends entirely on the individual's mind.

25-year-old Li Jing feel, and his wife "naked marriage" has done the most in this life is the right decision. "Both parents are often advised us to live with them, can take care of each other, can my wife and I both feel that hard, but 'own company' lives more meaningful. Its all sorts of tangled,http://cutyayu.sakura.ne.jp/cabbs/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=114&page=, have to choose one of the most perfect person, it is better choice allow yourself to become a better person, with the experience, grow together. "

For more than a year of marriage, Li Jing consciously "poor Youyanjiangcu tea" trivia grow a lot. "When not married,http://sportsfan.jpn.org/cgi-kban/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=75&page=2, I think 70 square meters of the house so small, how can be able to live, now that two people with a 30 square meter house is enough, rent saved can also save up investment products. Before I did do not go to the supermarket,giubbotti woolrich, and now I have a few minutes Which supermarket near the half-price discount fresh products, daily necessities in promotional Which are 'clear door children', chores are also hands-on, two people, but the cost of living than I single time a lot lower. "

Gu Jun believe that 80 can "play a leading role", the key is to know what they want and how to get. "Young people must first understand that the goal of marriage is to find the right person, but not quantifiable substance."

Experts suggest that young people consider the economic reality is not wrong, but not because of economic problems will cede dominance; the last generation should also establish a new concept of the lives of young people and reduce unnecessary intervention,nike requin tn, there must be willing to "green "spirit.